By Matthew Keegan
As a Christian, you understand that to visit bars, nightclubs, and many
other worldly establishments is not the way for you to meet your mate.
The people who hang out there may be nice, but they don’t share the
same values as you do. On the other hand, churches and Christian
Singles groups are popular ways to meet and hook up with those who are
of a like mind. So, what if you don’t meet someone at a church or in a
Christian Singles group? Well, consider meeting someone online. That’s
right, Christian Singles’ sites are exploding in growth and I am going
to tell you why!
Back in the 1990s when the internet really began to grow in popularity
dating sites sprung up as people began to realize that the web
presented an excellent way for total strangers to meet and date. Savvy
companies took advantage of the growing legion of ‘solitary singles’
online by creating places where you could register, log on, and meet
others. With fantastic success companies like Match.com took off and
the masses were served. Copycat sites sprung up and the choices were
plentiful.
Unfortunately, one segment of the Singles population did not fare well:
Christians. The secrecy of the internet had many people registering
claiming to be “Christian” when, in fact, they were not. Many pastors
reported that congregants were falling into sinful behavior by
participating on sites that were not that reputable.
So, Christian, what are you to do now? Well, a relationship expert by
the name of Dr. Neil Clark Warren sensed the need and began to fill it.
In 2000, Dr. Warren launched eHarmony, a site dedicated to helping
Christians find each other.
What makes eHarmony so special? Well, if you were to register with this
site you would quickly learn that it isn’t a site that simply takes
your name, a short profile, and your email address. Rather, you would
fill out a lengthy questionnaire which measures the “29 dimensions”
that are most important in relationship success. I won’t bore you with
going over all the dimensions; instead I will say that this
questionnaire does something that no other Singles site can do: it
basically chases away the pretenders and invites only the serious,
motivated single to register. Hey, it does take effort to fill out the
questionnaire...not many creeps would invest the time [or money!] to
finish the task.
Warren claims that eHarmony has thousands of success stories. Whether
that statement is true or not, it has opened up a way for Christian
Singles to meet and marry that goes beyond what the church or the
typical local singles group can offer singles. Indeed, some of the
other sites are now modifying their practices to attract Christian
Singles, so if the “29 Dimensions” deal of Dr. Warren’s is too much for
you, closely examine them to see if they can offer to you an
alternative. It is a buyer’s market for online singles... prayerfully
consider the best choice for you!
(c)2005; Matthew C Keegan, LLC
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