By LoRayne Haye
If you’re single and in sunny southern California, the climate for
seeking a serious relationship (beyond casual dating & sex) is
pretty dismal. Of course, you always have the option of carrying on
meaningless conversation at any one of a hundred Happy Hours (disguised
as Yoga Classes or a Sushi Gathering) with any one of a hundred
casual potential dates. Meanwhile back at the ranch, your girlfriends
are getting toasted in the corner. Placing you right back to, Square
One. Option #2: You’re on the internet scrolling thru the myriad of
dating service sites. Onto your last ditch effort. Option #3: The local
rag personal ads. Quickly running out of options here. If luck is
on your side and you’ve recently hit it big in the lottery or the
casinos, maybe today is your lucky day! Or Not.
Face it, the world is making a lot of money on women’s and for that
matter men’s lack of knowledge in the dating dance. Ah, yes…to
actually ‘know’ how to select a mate that you find physically
attractive, can carry on an intelligent conversation with, is
considerate, honorable. I know, I know. Impossible. Right? Or is it? “
The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking is essentially a lost science or
language rather than a system”, states Zannah Hackett, an author and
relationship expert. The following is an in depth look at one of the
most common sense approaches to finding your soul mate. I had the
privilege of interviewing Zannah at her lovely home in San Diego,
California.
L.H. When I hear the word ‘MatchMaking’, the hairs on the back of my
neck stand up. Explain how your system is different from the proverbial
‘matchmaking or dating agencies?
Z.H. “ It provides a means of understanding by subscribing to the
notion that everyone arrives here in their said “vehicle” without an
owner’s manual. This body of knowledge, referred to as the Knowledge of
Y.O.U., affords one the opportunity to understand themselves. It
hands them their owners’ manual as well as the one that belongs to
their potential mate. They become their own expert, their own
matchmaker. Instead of handing that delicate responsibility to some
other company or individual, I suggest they acquire this vital
understanding before visiting any dating sites or agencies. They will
make far less mistakes by going in informed. Without this knowledge
it’s like going outside in a rain storm without an umbrella. Your
chances of getting wet, cold and ill will be minimized. We are all here
to connect, to enhance and to rise to our full potential… but not
alone”.
L.H. We’ve all heard there’s no such thing as the “perfect
relationship” or “perfect mate”. Looking at it from a Vedic view point
is this true or not?
Z.H. “Actually, there is something called a “Maximum
Polarity Pull”. Once you are able to recognize what your perfect mate
looks like on sight with more than just your own intuition or “love at
first sight”, you can
increase your odds of achieving a maximum attractive relationship. This
is a huge benefit and definitely an advantage before entering the
dating scene. The current popular profiling mechanisms available
are wonderful but all too often services are pushed into the need to
homogenize for tracking purposes and convenience sake. This knowledge
will empower you and make you the expert. With the dating agency being
at your service instead of the other way around.
L.H. So what do you recommend?
Z.H. I recommend that those seeking the perfect
relationship be open to dismissing propaganda’s perception of “perfect”
and come to understand what is absolutely perfect for them. I
repeatedly recommend that everyone get informed before spending hours
filling out profiling questionnaires, taking coffee dates, or handing
over thousands of dollars to services that specialize in collecting
pools of people. These are important but to go in unarmed is just
foolish. This is your life we are talking about! And even
more importantly, your decisions impact another human being… positively
or negatively; depending on how much you know about your vehicle and
theirs. This knowledge is not subjective. It’s not
astrology. It has nothing to do with what day we were born, what
our sign is, where we grew up, what color our aura is, or how much
money we make. That would be like judging a car by the date it
was manufactured and the city in which its factory originated.
The ancient knowledge that I teach is best described as a physical
science versus a traditional typing system. I continuously encourage
every woman get this knowledge before ever engaging in a committed
relationship. It will increase her chances of creating an
environment in which both she and her mate can rise to their full
potential effortlessly.
L.H. Let’s say I want to get informed in the Knowledge of Y.O.U.. Is this a system both men and women can use?
Z.H. Absolutely. However, up until late, I have been giving it
only to women. I have my reasons of which I reveal to both men and
women in private sessions & seminars. Each session allows you to
come in contact with your own strengths and weaknesses. Oddly
enough, sometimes this is very comforting. People come to know that it
is okay to be the way they are. I teach them that they have a
very distinct purpose and that they don’t have to subscribe to
what someone else professes to be the a ‘right’ way to be or act.
It’s a common sense approach to Reality Training for Relationships.
Do you recommend seminars or sessions?
I have found that private sessions work best for those that are trying
to really get serious about finding a mate and want quick results.
Seminars (LOVING Y.O.U. Workshops) often serve as a means of
introducing many to the knowledge but to really integrate it into your
personal life, you just can’t surpass a private session. Private
Sessions are more expensive but all of your questions (and you will
have many) are answered without interruption and your risk of being
rushed is minimized as the sessions run 3 hours in length.
I also assist clients in selecting agencies and online dating venues if
it seems appropriate for them.
Are you the only one doing this or is there another source?
Yes I am. I am currently trying to clone myself by creating
certification workshops for practitioners. It’s vital that the
knowledge maintain integrity and I am a stickler about how the material
is presented. However, for those clients that can’t make it to a
seminar or session, I just recently published an ebook entitled The
Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking. It will also be available in July
in paperback and can be downloaded presently off of my website,
http://www.pauseformagic.com .
How much does it cost?
The fee for a private session is $150 at my office as opposed to a
group seminar that runs upwards of $375. The seminar fee
varies depending on the host and the trimmings. I also travel to
other cities for privates but the fee is adjusted
accordingly. I like doing different venues and especially love it
when a group of women come together for a FUN REVIEW. This is
where many private clients come together and share how the knowledge is
working. It also gives them an opportunity to use it with other
women that have it as well. It’s a lot like being in a foreign
country where English is not spoken and you get the opportunity to
congregate with a dozen or more Americans for an evening of total
understanding.
Have you ever used this knowledge in any other areas?
Yes, quite frequently companies will enlist my services in helping them
to create harmonious work environments. I also get a lot of life
coaches, personal trainers, dating specialists and psychotherapists
that are seeking additional methods of meeting their clients needs,
especially with family and marriage counseling. The knowledge is
priceless when it comes to meeting these needs and truly expedites a
positive outcome.
Is there anything that sets your presentation of matchmaking apart from
other classes devoted to creating harmonious relationships?
Yes. There are some dynamics between the male and female union
that are governed by ancient physical laws. These laws I share in
this presentation of LOVING Y.O.U. The union between a man and
woman carries with it a great responsibility, not only to the parties
involved but also to the betterment of mankind. We as a species,
have forgotten how to respond naturally as our attention has become
over stimulated with too much designer information. Thus, we
can’t even recognize ourselves much less the love of our life. The
Knowledge of Y.O.U. refreshes your memory.
For information regarding the Nov. 12th seminar in Woodland
Hills, scheduling a session or purchasing the book, The Ancient
Wisdom of Matchmaking, visit: http://www.yourownunderstanding.com
760.809.7273
LoRayne Haye is an accomplished columnist and believes in perpetuating
health in all relationships. Visit her website:
EATING-4-ENERGY.COM
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