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If You Really Need A Dating Quiz, Maybe You Shouldn't Be Dating |
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Thursday, 06 October 2005 |
By Brian Fong
Q. My boyfriend failed a dating quiz. Should I dump him?
A. If you're the type that hates to be dumped, then you should dump him
before he finds out that you even asked this question. If you put so
much value on a dating quiz that you're willing to break off a
relationship because someone "failed" it, then maybe you're not ready
for dating yet.
You see, a dating quiz is written for entertainment purposes only. I'm
not trying to be sexist here, but they are usually written for girls
and young woman, and they are designed to prey upon your natural
insecurities. They are biased towards some unrealistic viewpoint of
what the perfect partner is and the perfect partner doesn't exist.
I remember a dating quiz that asked if my girlfriend reached over to
unlock the driver's door after I let her into the passenger door. If I
answered "Yes" then she would make a perfect wife. If I answered "No"
then I should run away!
Come on, get real. If that's all it took to be a perfect wife there would never be any divorces.
My point, at the risk of repeating myself, is that a dating quiz
shouldn't be taken seriously. In fact, there is a good chance that they
shouldn't be taken at all. Your common sense knows whether or not you
are dating someone who is good or bad for you. You don't need some
overworked writer, working against a deadline to fill up some white
space in a magazine, or on a web site, to tell you whether or not you
should dump someone on the basis of your answers to a dating quiz. Not
if you're anyone who is worth dating, that is.
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