If the fish do not bite, move to more fertile waters. Often
we see someone that we find attractive, and while we put on the best
face we can, they are uninterested. If someone is truly
interested in you, they will make that known. You will not need
to continue to place yourself on audition for the, and get no results,
if someone is interested they will show it. If that person that
you have you eye on isn’t taking the bait, move to where someone
is.
By Stephanie Manley
If the fish do not bite, move to more fertile waters. Often we
see someone that we find attractive, and while we put on the best face
we can, they are uninterested. If someone is truly interested in
you, they will make that known. You will not need to continue to
place yourself on audition for the, and get no results, if someone is
interested they will show it. If that person that you have you
eye on isn’t taking the bait, move to where someone is.
Call it irony, call it God’s good blessing, that everyone isn’t
attracted to everyone else. There will always be not so great
choices, and some wonderful choices out there. Is it by design
that not everyone attracts you in a romantic way, or is it just a good
thing. With this in mind, you shouldn’t get discouraged when that
other person isn’t interested enough in you to pursue a relationship.
So if you are extending out invitations, your phone calls aren’t being
returned, and the person isn’t open to spending time with you because
they are too busy, let it go. If you call people to dinner they
come, and if they don’t, guess what, they aren’t hungry. You need
to cut these outpourings within a reasonable time before people become
uncomfortable. It isn’t about being antisocial; it is about you
not wasting your time.
If people are interested, they return phone calls. They do show
up when you invite them, and they do make an effort to spend time with
you. Watch for these signs. Yes, some people are off to
slow starts, and that’s ok; just make sure you’re getting positive
feedback. If you are getting lukewarm feedback, it is time for
you to rethink your position on this particular person, and see if it
is a slow start, or if it is simply time to move on.
One thing to remember when you are looking for a potential partner is
that you are getting positive feedback. This is in returned phone
calls, they show up when you invite them, and they are willing to do
their share in keeping lines of communication open. If they are
doing less than that, that person isn’t as interested in you as you are
in them. So before you get a lot invested into a lukewarm
relationship, simply look elsewhere for that special person.
Stephanie writes many more articles at http://romancelessons.blogspot.com
She is also the editor for CopyKat recipes - you have tried it in the
restaurant, now make it at home. http://www.copykat.com
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