By Rick Valens
Ever had a love at first sight encounter? Totally captured by her
beauty the first time you laid your eyes on her? Having sleepless
nights thinking about her? That first impression she left with you was
sure astonishing wasn’t it?
The first impression you give plays a very important part in the
blooming of a love relationship. It determines the ever possibility of
a development of the relationship. Would you fall in love with someone
whom you don’t have any good impression at all? The chances are, if you
have a bad impression of someone, it’s very likely that the more you
see him the more you will dislike him. It’s very hard to change one’s
thinking once it is set in his mind. It will need a lot of time and
regular communication between both to break down that wall. So even if
you can’t impress that special someone the very first time, make sure
you will not displease him or her. You can still work on your chances
at a later time.
How can you impress someone? Well, you may be the kindest soul, so
helpful; caring, fun loving and easy going whom all your friends enjoy
your presence. But does that someone know? No, if there are no chances
of both of you going out together, going out on a date, there’s no way
he or she will ever get to know you more. You have got to make that
someone notice you, make your presence be known. You got to first
impress him or her!
Very naturally, humans tend to make judgment of another just by their
very first acquaintance with the person. Decisions were made almost at
that very moment of your job interview? Your physical appearance, the
way you talk, all your little behaviors you show, will decide what kind
of a person you are to them and this impression is going to be set in
their mind unless some thing or someone changes it.
So what can you do? What should you take note of? First of all, your
appearance of course. Your physical appearance is the very the first
thing that catches a person’s eyes. Put on your very best look! But do
however dress appropriately. If you are going for a ball, you will not
go in your jeans and tee and if you are going for a barbeque, for
heaven’s sake, please don’t go in your tuxedo or suits. Other than your
physical appearance, you have to also be careful with all your little
actions, the way you speak, the way you eat, the way you look at others…
Look for chance to strike a conversation with that someone. If not a
personal one, a little group conversation will be good. Try to
participate in the conversation, getting his or her attention. Look
into the eyes, drop him or her a nice warm smile. Let that someone know
that his or her presence is felt, being felt by you. A smile with the
right eye contact at the right timing can sometimes works wonder than
to words. But please, keep the conversations entertaining. If you are
bad with jokes, don’t try it! Don’t risk making yourself a clown.
For guys, show your gentlemanliness, hold the door for her, offer seat
to her; offer her a ride home… But remember, be natural, take things
slowly, don’t overdo it and scare her off the very first time.
For girls? Well, you always got a little more privilege. Just be sure
not to make yourself look unfriendly, Smile… Look him in the eyes
and drop him a nice little sweet smile of yours. Do you know that your
smile is enough to melt a man’s heart?
Well all these little things count, your little efforts will pay off…
Nonetheless, it’s always good to leave people with a good impression of
yourself rather than a bad one, isn’t it?
©2005 http://www.loveletterbox.com
Rick Valens
Staff Writer
http://www.loveletterbox.com
Love Relationship Discussion Forum
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