Younger women tend to have a more carefree attitude about men and
relationships. They will enjoy your company as you won't be playing the
"mind games" that younger men do, you'll treat them with respect and
will avoid casting judgment on them. It will be clear that you have a
stable life beyond your relationship with them. Independence can be
intoxicating.
As a parent, you'll demonstrate a nurturing and caring side and offer
stability. You'll have more worldly experiences to share and draw upon.
Having kept yourself in shape, you may still be quite physically
attractive to all women.
To older women, you offer the exuberance of "youth" and an active
lifestyle with a "mature" man. As a single parent, you can relate to
many of their lives and will exhibit a trustworthy, reliable, loving
and caring persona. They'll assume that you prefer togetherness to
loneliness.
We're all better off when others can experience us in our truest form,
yet we frequently conceal our feelings out of fear that we will be
harshly judged. This diminishes our chances for meaningful
relationships. The answer is for you to be the same person around those
your own age as you are around those younger or older. But don't
exclude the latter as you may be missing out on the relationship of a
lifetime.
David Coleman
About the author:
David Coleman is known nationwide as The Dating Doctor™ and “America’s Real-Life
Hitch!” He has been honored nine times as the National Speaker of the Year - 6
times by Campus Activities Magazine and 3 times by The National Association for
Campus Activities and is nominated once again for 2006.
